My Dear Daughter,
When you were very young, your mother and I took the time to make sure we inculcated certain values in you. The values of love for your fellow human being, empathy for people and faith in God.
As you go off to secondary school, I want to ask you not to let go of these values. You are going to meet so many people from different backgrounds. You will be exposed to new things and influences. But no matter the people you meet or the influences you encounter, do not forget who you are, where you come from and the values you should hold as sacred.
We have made sure, to the best of our ability, that you are growing up sure of yourself and comfortable in your own skin. You will meet a lot of people in your new environment who were not so lucky to have this sort of upbringing.
Some people you meet may have one challenge or another. This does not mean that they do not deserve to be accorded the respect, dignity and love which is a fundamental right for every human being. That they are “different” does not warrant you to be rude and mean to them or make fun of them. You find that some people are so mean that they go out of their way to harass those so challenged by calling them names like “imbecile”, “moron”, “stupid”, etc. Tripping people just for a laugh, spitting on them, and pulling their hair, these are examples of bullying and is not acceptable behaviour in any circumstance.
My daughter, do not to be part of any “gang” or group of persons who seek to make others miserable. And don’t set off on your own to make anyone miserable. Never bully another human being. Always rise above your base instincts. In all circumstances let the nobility in you shine.
You are my princess. Let your light shine positively, bringing joy and laughter to people you come across.
Love you always.
Dad.