My dear Daughter,
You have to apply caution when dealing with people, because, in most cases what you hear is not what is. You may have heard that the heart of man is a fountain of wickedness, well, this is true. As you progress in life and interact with people, bear in mind that “talk is cheap”.
A good number of people are quick to express how much they love and care for you with words but their actions tell a different tale. And there are those who may not be as vocal about their feelings, but their actions speak volumes – believe them.
Words that aren’t followed up with complementary actions are void of meaning. Therefore, it is necessary to be on your guard to discern if the words that are spoken by those around you tally with their actions – this may require investigative efforts on your part.
This can also be a two-edged sword. Beyond being able to tell who loves you, you can equally tell if a person harbours ill feelings towards you by their actions. And though they may smile to your face, their actions would give them away.
In essence, what I’m trying to say, my dear, is, don’t take what people say to you, hook, line and sinker. People may not always tell you how they feel about you, but they will show you. So always pay close attention.
Love you always,
Dad