Some relationships can have mutual attraction, good communication, well-matched personalities – but somehow still be lacking in bedroom matters. How well partners are matched sexually depends on a various factors which can change constantly for no real reason. Here are signs to know whether you and partner are sexually incompatible:
-How do you both think of sex?
Sometimes it is a mindset problem. For instance, your partner may prefer intellectual compatibility to sexual compatibility – he may not simply want to put a great deal of emphasis on making sex the magical glue in your relationship. On the other hand, you feel that sexual compatibility is very important if you want to keep the spark alive.
-Are choosing quantity over quality?
Sexually compatible couples tend to focus on the quality of sex – they wouldn’t be too bothered about how frequently they are having it, according to experts. So, if one of you thinks that sex is just a routine thing to do while the other partner is having strong desires after deeply satisfying lovemaking sessions once in a while, chances are you are sexually incompatible with each other.
-No communication
The key to great sex is communication. So, if one of the partners is nonchalant or not particularly enthusiastic about discussing new positions or how to make sex better, while the other is all too willing to discuss bedroom blues, sexual incompatibility is obvious.