I think it is safe to say that we all have deep secrets, or who doesn’t? But when it comes to a romantic relationship with the opposite sex, it should be built on trust. So it should be all about openness.
Or why should people who doubt each other become man and wife in the first place? However, there are some things that should be kept away from one’s partner to avoid breaking that trust that you both hold very there. These include:
1. The best sex you ever had
Don’t do this and make your partner feel less. If your most memorable, knee-trembling and mind-blowing sex hasn’t been with your partner then don’t bother spilling out to them. Even if you want your partner to step up their sex game and gain tips from your sexual history, don’t make comparison or hurt their sentiments and ego by mentioning someone better in the sex game.
2. Being in contact with exes
They are called ‘exes’ for a reason. It means they are in the past and you are working towards the future. There are chances that you maintain a cordial and good relationship with your exes. This might not sit well with your partner. You may face unnecessary arguments or slithers of jealousy slowly consuming your relationship. If you still contact your exes, it’s better to keep those texts and calls to yourself.
3. Not liking a physical attribute
Nobody got it all perfect. Even your partner has flaws and imperfections that you accept yet don’t really like very much. Whether it’s a flat bum or pimpled face or a big nose, these are things your partner can’t change. Moreover, if you point it out to them, they will feel terribly insecure about their looks. So, it’s better to keep that dislike to yourself.