Imagine a lady dressed elegantly with ‘lit’ make up and a ‘fire’ hair do, but with drooping shoulders and clumsy poise and posture. Straight up, something is lacking which is confidence.
When it comes to dressing for success, confidence is a vital ‘accessory’ for every lady. Without confidence, a lady can lose her fashion statement. Besides, if she wants to be taken seriously, she has to prove it. This is not just by her dressing but how she presents and carries herself. There is difference between cockiness and confidence.
Confidence shows that the lady is in love with herself; she appreciates her body and curves. She downplays her flaws and put her best foot forward. Here are 5 commandments of the confident lady:
- She is not afraid to take bold steps. Being female does not hide her powerful aesthetics. She knows how to carry herself well. Her body language speaks boldness.Chin up, shoulders high and the million dollar smile, she is a go-getter.
- Her wardrobe consists of fashion staples of clean classic cuts, dresses and outfits. She has timeless wears relevant for every fashion season. She wears them and they still look as good and fresh.
- There is no confident woman without style. To add this, she is graceful. Being confident is not a license to be loud, she knows how to carry herself well in her outfits without looking desperate, timid or arrogant. Everything from her hair to skin to outfit to shoes to accessories to mannerism exudes class and sophistication.
- She laughs without fear of the future. She is confident in her abilities and does not hide under ‘impostor syndrome’. She looks the part and dresses the part. She is as real as it gets. No need for pretense or fear.
- She is complete. Nothing missing. Nothing amiss. Everything part of her dressing is in the right proportion. When she speaks her words are wise and she is fashion icon to many.