I get it; life is not exactly the easiest journey and sometimes the image of ‘adulting’ is more like a bed of thorns and weeds than of roses. I’ve often flung my hands up high amidst frustrating moments and declared what has become a clichéd announcement for me: “I am tired”. Incidentally, there’s probably someone somewhere in the world mirroring the same words (a.k.a there’s nothing new under the sun).
Waje’s public declaration of quitting music on Tuesday – even though it’s allegedly a PR stunt, reminded me of the multitude of times I found myself at that place of frustration and despair. Over the years, I found a way to manage the situation which involved addressing the root cause – my mind.
I ask myself these 5 questions when I feel like ditching my dreams and sulking my way into solitude.
Why Am I Doing This?
Obviously, this is the first place to start because the ‘why’ always leads to the purpose. Forget the present challenges and ask yourself why you’re towing this path. You’re likely to give yourself a satisfactory answer (I know I do).
What’s The Worse That Could Happen If You Don’t Reach Your Goal?
Go broke? Become Poor? So many people fear poverty and rightfully so, however, poverty is not a death sentence and it is not lifelong bondage either, you can always set yourself free.
Would Your Life Be Better If You Give Up?
If yes, ditch it. If no, stay the course.
How Much Have You Already Put in
In the video circulating the internet, Waje can be heard complaining about how much she has put into creating a successful music career for herself which most people in her shoes can relate to. Building a career is not cheap. Are willing to let go of all the effort, time and money you’ve put in?
Is it delayed gratification?
From my experience, a turnaround or breakthrough usually lurks in the nick of time. Are you giving up too early? Perhaps waiting a little longer will do you more good than harm.