If you are not involved in remote working or going to the field, you most likely spend your working hours in an office. It is possible to “catch feelings” for another worker. This common phenomenon is what we term “office romance“. While this could be a source of distraction at work, some people have found life partners through this process. If you are considering getting into an office romance, take note of the following:
1. Never let it affect your output
The reason you are in the office is to work, and while falling for someone in the professional space is not a crime, it is important you don’t lose focus. Distractions can often lead to slip-ups that can harm your career prospects. When your productivity is reduced because of entanglement with another worker, you would have clashes with your employer.
2. Know your company policy
It is not all companies that allow office romance. For some, it is against their policies. So before investing in an office romance, check to know what your company policy is saying about it. If your company has a no-tolerance policy then you might want to avoid it. If it is serious, you should consult your HR to find a way to deal with this.
3. Respect office property and work hours
Why would you be using work hours, company data, and tools to nurture your romantic relationship with another worker? You should also never use work emails to send personal emails to your loved one. This unprofessional behaviour is something you should totally avoid.
4. Avoid Public Display of Affection
While being in love or having a crush can be a mushy feeling, public display of affection in the office is a complete no-no. While it attracts too much attention, it might put your co-workers in an awkward place, something that can be totally avoided. Getting cosy with each other on official premises is not acceptable. Also, the team should not feel that you are being biased toward someone because of your romantic involvement.
5. Avoid messy breakups
While this is not always in one’s hand, a messy breakup can be detrimental for the career at times, especially if you are dating someone who has a different seniority level than you. Imagine working in the same office with someone you once had feelings for, this could affect your career negatively.