After the wedding there is much to enjoy and look forward to in the months and years ahead as a married couple. The next phase is the honeymoon which officially marks an intimate celebration for you and your husband. It is just the two of you, no parents, no guests and no invasion.
Well, we can’t say exclude sex from the honeymoon. If you are a virgin on your wedding night, you would probably be anxious about what will happen on your honeymoon but you need not worry.
The following tips will ensure that your first time is just as how you envisaged it to be:
1. Communicate
Before you actually get on the bed with your partner, ensure that you have a detailed discussion about things. It is very important to know each other’s sexual preferences and likes and dislikes. So before hitting the sheets, spend time with each other talking and cuddling. Talk about your hopes and fears are. If you are nervous because your partner is more experienced than you, let them know. Don’t feel nervous or embarrassed about bringing up the subject of sex. Your soon-to-be-spouse is about to become your partner for life, and you need to communicate your feelings. The discussions may eventually turn dirty and naughty, this will not only help you get a better clarity, but it will also help you build a good foundation. Afterwhich the sex that follows after such deep talks is definitely going to be great.
2. Don’t have unrealistic expectations
The first time doesn’t necessarily have to be the best sex. It usually is a little lousy and awkward. Whatever the case, just try your best to enjoy that. Cherish every moment as it comes and just go with the momentum. Don’t focus on how amazing the feelings are (or aren’t). Worrying is a distraction. It will only stress you out and ultimately take you out of the moment. Instead, be gentle with your partner and focus on how amazing it is to finally be in each others’ arms as a married couple.
3. Find pleasure
When a woman loses her virginity, it is normal for her to lose a little blood and feel pain. To ease the pain, start with lots of foreplay to get in the mood. You’ll also want to have a good lubricant. Get one that’s safe to use with latex and it doesn’t have glycerin, which can cause yeast infections. A lubricated condom with extra lube will make it an even better experience.
4. Don’t rush
Take it slow as you enjoy and relish every moment of this. It is understandable that you waited long but you need to be patient. You have all the time together as a couple so you can shift to the next morning when you are relaxed and get some good night’s sleep. After the never-ending rituals and traditions of the wedding, most couples are tired and half dead. So you do not have to force yourself to have sex on the same night just because it is a practice. Don’t rush, keep it smooth and comfortable for both of you. The first time is going to be magical.
5. Be confident
You should already feel confident knowing your spouse is crazy about you and thinks you are the best, but confidence is sexy. Confidence enhances your beauty, inside and out. You can consider buying some really hot and sexy lingerie. This will set the tone for your first time making it a memorable one.