There is no better feeling in the world when you love somebody and the person loves you back. Usually at the onset of a relationship, it is the ‘lovey dovey’ phase and both parties are carried away by the butterflies in their stomach, so they can see past their perfections. However, it takes a person of good character and values to make a relationship last.
If you want to be an unforgettable and irresistible partner, you need to have the following qualities:
1. Be a giver
Relationships is about giving. A lady should only expect to receive from her man and vice versa. Giving should come naturally. You give your time, money, gifts, help and other gestures that show you love. A tight fisted person would have difficulty maintaining a relationship. People give to those they love. It is not enforced but free. Note that this is not just for your partner alone, you must also extend to strangers.
2. Learn to laugh at yourself
We all make mistakes. It is allowed. You should not see failure as an end but as a means to try better next attempt. Laughing at yourself shows you don’t take things to serious or to heart.
3.Live on your own terms
When you realise that everyone has their own race, you would understand that you need not invest energy on competition. We are suppose to compete with ourselves and strive to be better everyday. Envy is unhealthy. Be genuinely happy for other people when they do well. Trying to keep up with the Joneses is living in deceit. Work at defining success on your own terms and live by it.
4. Have self control
There are times you are likely to fly off the handle. Like someone said, words are like eggs, once broken, they can’t be taken back again. When you say something out of anger, it can not be repaired. Having self control shows maturity. It means you are charge of your emotions.
5. Have passion
Your passion is your drive. It would help you in those days you feel like giving up. Your passion is the reason why you are good at what you do and why you keep getting better at it. Build passion for things you love and would love to do. It could be a hobby, a task or new venture. Have something that pushes you to succeed.
6. Being confident
There is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Add humility to your confidence and it would serve its purpose. To get ahead in life, you have to be confident. Fortune befriends the bold.
7. Take care of your body
After all, it is yours. If you don’t, no one will. If you have to exercise, change your diet, beauty regime, do so. Pamper your body and it would serve you well.