My Darling Daughter,
“But this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before…” Philippians 3:13
As we journey through life with all its complexities, we are bound to make many mistakes and missteps. We are likely to fail repeatedly and score successes as well. However, the challenges we encounter may leave us discouraged because we are perplexed and confused about which way to go.
It is at moments like these that you should remind yourself that yesterday is gone and tomorrow is out of sight. What matters is the present and what you do now. You should not let your past detract you from making progress. Dwelling on the past leads nowhere, except to self-blame, regrets and delayed dreams.
The only reason you should look to the past is to gauge how far you’ve come with a heart of gratitude. Afterwards, it is advisable to move forward, face the future and make the necessary progress which you are capable of.
As you journey through life, my dear,
- Learn the right lessons from your mistakes and missteps.
- Use these lessons and challenges as a guide on how to avoid the same mistakes on your journey.
- Seek out help when you need it and move forward with confidence and careful planning.
- Always lend a helping hand to others who might benefit from your experience.
- Remember to count your blessings because believe me; they will always outnumber your woes.
So sweetheart, remember to imitate St. Paul as you journey along:
“But this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before…” Philippians 3:13
Love you always,
Dad