“…saying that I look better if I were thinner, don’t you know you shoulda loved me for my inner, when I left you, I came out a winner…” those were the lyrics from Sean Kingston’s Face Drop and the storyline is what we are discussing today.
Are you unhappy in the bedroom? If the answer is yes, then there are likely a number of reasons for your unhappiness. There may be many reasons, but do you think that your weight may be to blame? Yes! It may be if you are overweight or obese.
The questions that probably will be on your mind will be if it’s really possible to improve your intimacy with weight loss but it’s very evident that your weight will have an impact on your sex life. Weight loss and its impact on your sex life will honestly depend on you.
There’s a common fallacy and many women make the mistake of believing that their lost weight resulted in better sex. It can, but did you know that many women are just deceiving themselves? Being intimate with your partner may feel better and result in more pleasure, but it honestly may be due to an increase in your self-confidence levels.
How? Women who lose weight do see an increase in self-confidence and this extra confidence often allows them to enjoy it better. What does this mean? It means that the sex may be the same routine, but it just feels better now.
Experimentation is key to keeping your relationship “hot”; and an extra impact that your ability to lose weight may have on your sex life is your ability to experiment in the bedroom because it will allow you to try a new sex position.
Beforehand, has your weight kept you from being creative? If so, now is your time to be better. It’s your time to show your partner that you now have moves that you never even thought of trying before.
It is also important to take your partner into consideration. Regrettably, this is not something many women reflect on but if you were to lose weight, there’s a good chance your partner will like the improvement. Your husband most likely loves and worships you now, but there is still something striking about women who take steps to better themselves, especially in terms of appearance
You may be interested in starting a weight loss plan today since there is a good chance that your sex life will improve, don’t forget however that a healthy diet and a strong exercise plan are needed. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment ; you don’t just lose weight for great sex. Consider your BMI and decide if you need to lose weight.Finally, if you are grossly overweight, consider talking to your doctor before starting a new diet or exercise plan.
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