Dear Dorothy,
I can never seem to decide what to wear, no matter the occasion. I spend ages staring at my wardrobe, trying on outfit after outfit, and still end up feeling like nothing looks right. By the time I finally choose something, I’m late, stressed, and completely over it. How can I stop agonising over clothes and make dressing less of a drama?— Perpetual
Dear Perpetual,
First, take a deep breath. You’re not alone. Many of us face the daily wardrobe dilemma, but a few small strategies can make it far less stressful.
Start by getting to know your wardrobe intimately. Clear out items that no longer fit, feel uncomfortable, or simply don’t spark joy. You’ll be left with pieces you actually like and feel confident in. Then, create go-to outfits for different situations; a “formula” that works for work, weekends, or evenings out. This reduces decision fatigue and gives you a reliable fallback when you’re in a rush.
Another trick is to plan ahead. Lay out your outfit the night before, and don’t overthink it. Sometimes your first instinct is right. Accessories can help refresh a look without needing a complete wardrobe overhaul.
Finally, remember that perfection isn’t the goal. Feeling comfortable and confident in what you wear matters far more than ticking every style box. With a little preparation and some wardrobe curation, you can transform mornings from stressful to serene.
Regards,
Dorothy