Dear Dorothy,
I’m in a relationship with a successful man who is also very handsome and because of this, he earned his name, Ladies Man.
We’ve been dating for three years but it hasn’t been easy due to his flirtatious ways. Our relationship has survived this long because of my love for him. But, honestly Dorothy, I don’t sleep very well at night; I have lost a lot of weight. In fact, I have become a shadow of my former self and people close to me are beginning to notice.
Dorothy, what do you advise me to do? I don’t know how to deal with this.
My Dear,
No relationship is worth mental and emotional torture.
You have to be honest with yourself: you are a one man woman, you want an exclusive relationship. In short, you don’t have the mental or emotional capacity to share your man with another woman.
This isn’t unique to you. Most of us have no desire to share that special individual that we hold close and personal in a love relationship with another person.
You know what you want, yet you still choose to stay in a “tumultuous” relationship. The situation is now eating you up to the point that you can’t sleep; you can’t eat properly and you’ve lost so much weight that you look ill.
My dear, you do not need a soothsayer to tell you that you have to leave this your tall handsome man to his own vices and move on with your life for the sake of your mental and physical well-being.
Breaking up is hard to do but sometimes no matter how hard we may find it, it is in our best interest to walk away. Please, quit while you are still ahead so that you can get on the path to healing of the hurt and recovery.
Hopefully what I’ve shared will help you reach a decision on how to move forward. Take care and best of luck.