Dear Dorothy,
I have been a Christian for many years, but recently I have felt isolated because of my faith. At work and even among friends, I am mocked for my beliefs, left out of conversations and treated as if I am naïve or odd. I try to stay calm and kind, but the comments still sting.
I know that following Christ sometimes comes with challenges, but this feels heavy. I do not want bitterness to settle in my heart, yet I also cannot pretend the hurt is not there. How do I stay strong without losing myself? How do I remain loving when I feel pushed aside simply for standing by what I believe?
Yours sincerely,
Hadassah
Dear Hadassah,
Thank you for writing with such honesty. What you are experiencing is more common than many admit. When you choose to live by the gospel, you stand out, and not everyone knows how to respond to that. The hurt you feel is real, and you are not weak for acknowledging it.
First, remember that persecution is not a sign that you are doing something wrong. Often, it is a quiet confirmation that your light is visible. Christ spoke openly about this. He never promised an easy road, but he did promise his presence and strength for every step. You are not carrying this alone.
Secondly, guard your heart without closing it. It is possible to feel the sting of unfair treatment while still choosing grace. You do not need to force yourself to shrug it off. Instead, bring the pain into prayer. Let it be something you surrender, not something you hide. You may also want to find one or two trusted believers who can listen, pray and encourage you.
Thirdly, set gentle boundaries. If certain conversations or environments drain your spirit, it is fine to step back or redirect the topic. Loving people does not mean absorbing every harsh remark. You can be kind without making yourself a target.
Finally, keep your eyes on the bigger picture. You are growing stronger, deeper and more rooted through this season. Faith that has been tested becomes faith that can stand. And your courage may one day be the reason someone else finds their way to Christ.
Hold your head up. You are seen. You are valued. And you are never alone in this journey.
With warmth,
Dorothy