Dear Dorothy,
I have been dating my man for about 12 months. I am falling in love with him, as he is a caring gentleman. However, there is a challenge, I think he is still interested in his ex-girlfriend. Since we started dating, her number is still stored on his phone. She sends him messages by text and WhatsApp. He says they are just friends and I have nothing to worry about.
Dorothy, I don’t think I have the make up to share the man in my life with another woman. Even though he treats me as if I am his one and only, I think that his being in communication with his “ex “does not show that he is totally committed to our relationship.
What do you advice that I do?
My Dear,
It is important in any relationship that the parties are honest with one another and not play games. In your case, I do not think that your man is being honest with you. He may be deceiving you and stringing you along as his side chick.
Your boyfriend does not seem to have put an end to his relationship with his so-called ex-girlfriend and it is still ongoing.
He is not devoting enough time to your relationship to give you the comfort that you need. Since you have said that you are not one to share your man with another woman, I will advice that you cut loose before you get too involved and find it difficult to break up with him because you have grown too fond and attached to him.
Good luck.