By Charles Anyiam-Osigwe
Darling,
Please don’t forget what it takes to keep our relationship on the right path.
Your look was very important to you when we met and commenced dating; you wore thongs, sexy lingerie, perfume and stilettos. Wow! Your striking red lipstick spelt share passion; please do not let the passage of time and familiarities take these away from you. I am attracted to you; don’t let me stop reaching out to you because you are not paying attention to your looks. Remember our old song “O sexy lady, you turn me on, I want to dance with you babe all night long”
All the silly games we get up to should not all together stop as we count the years. I know we never went overboard in the bedroom; swinging on the chandeliers or stripper poles, and whipping out the whipped cream but we should continue in those games that turn us on.
Just because we now have children remember that I am your “number one” do not neglect me because your attention is focused on the children. The kids need attention and affection so do I.
A man needs respect not matter the economic ups and downs in life. Love me and respect me in all circumstances.
Remember darling that I love your waistline and perfect curves; please do not let yourself go, adding weight, looking dowdy and generally taking your looks for granted.
Talk to me darling, not at me. Please don’t nag.
Sweetheart, you should always remember that whatever you will not do for your man, there are other women out there willing to do it.
I love you my darling. I too will not take you for granted. I will do all within my power to remain the “Catalogue” man you married.
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