Men and women are wired differently. Ladies would usually hesitate when it comes to being the first one to approach a man they like. Most men would do otherwise with ladies they are attracted to. In this new year, are you thinking of how to get out of being in the single rut, here is how to shoot your shot at your crush:
- Just shoot your shot
While it is always advised that people should not shoot their shots and go after those they fancy, we also understand that they might be either shy, uncomfortable, fear rejection or are just plain traditional and would rather not do this. Nevertheless, they can gather courage, prepare for the worst and just make it happen by ‘shooting their shot’.
- Follow the law of positioning
There is still a chance that you will get the partner without having to ask him/her directly. All you need to do is position yourself well. Instead of outrightly shooting your shot and coming at your crush head-on, be a little subtle about it. Make friends and engage them in conversations – both fun and serious ones. Keep communication channels alive. There is something about communicating with someone every time that makes the heart grow fond of them and boosts some deep connection. As you build communication, subtly drop date hints and sly romantic innuendos here and there, your relationship would go to a deeper level in no time. The secret here is in slyly getting your crush to come after you and to make them think they initiated the relationship, whereas it was your plan all along.