It may feel awkward dating a lady that has been single to almost stupor. As in, she has gotten used to being all by herself, with herself, and for herself. It takes a patient and understanding man to be able to get into her space and win her completely.
Any man who finds himself in that shoes may need to take note of the following to get along better with such a lady:
1. Give her time to adjust
It’s only logical to give her time to adjust to being in a relationship and doing all the things people in relationships do. Being single for a long time does not automatically mean she would need more time than the average girl to adjust, but it is something to be expected.
2. Holding back
The lady may be rigid so allow herself to gradually lose herself as she gets involved with you. She is not so used to opening up to people that much anymore. The intimacy of sharing all your fears and worries and the lowest moments with your partner will likely be alien to her.
3. Learn to give her space
Don’t be over possessive or overbearing. Allow her to have some space to be and feel herself. Even people who have been together for long periods still occasionally need space to be by themselves.
4. Show commitment and consistency
The last thing you want to do is show you are a time-waster. While things might appear difficult with her from the onset due to the required lifestyle changes, you can’t afford to be inconsistent. Prove you have genuine intentions for her. It would even make it quicker and easier for her to get closer to you.
5. Manage her sense of independence
She would be likely independent, spending so long taking care of herself that she’ll not see the immediate need for you to do things for her or even get involved in some parts of her life. Show her that she needs you all the same in many areas to make her life more complete.