Yes, prayers can help you find the love you desire. Pray for healing of past heartache, pray to be made ready for a true and healthy love, and pray for the soul mate that is meant to be by your side in life. Call on God to heal your heart, and send you a loyal, loving, honest, hardworking man or woman who will love you unconditionally, a man or woman who speaks to you with respect, and with love; someone who doesn’t judge you. Pray that He should bring someone special into your Life so that both of you can love, respect, communicate and live in harmony with each other
A fact of life is that we all crave to love and be loved. When one’s love life is not what it should be, when there is no one special in our life; when our relationship is unstable or fraught with uncertainty, we tend to be emotionally unbalanced. We lose our zest for life.
Around me, I see many people living sad, lonely, loveless lives. Yet, it is their earnest desire to live joyous, happy and fulfilled lives with their beloved. Why are their lives the opposite of their desire?
My guess is that innately, subconsciously, they feel that they cannot attain their heart’s desire or they feel unworthy of that which they desire. But, wishing for one thing and expecting the opposite is one sure way of getting our expectation and not our wish or desire.
If you want success in a particular endeavour but you prepare for failure, you will surely fail because we tend to get that which we prepare for and not that which we wish for. To get our heart desire calls for a complete transformation of our thought pattern. St. Paul says, “Be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind”. How do you renew your mind? By getting rid of negative feelings about yourself, and others. By ridding yourself of all resentments, anger, disappointments, jealousies, bigotry, pettiness, and thoughts that enslave you to destructive living.
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© Walk on Water – The Art of Positive Living by Charles O. Anyiam-Osigwe.