So it is the time of the year that every single girl dreads- St. Valentine’s day. If you are like her and very much single, instead of wallowing in self-pity and doubting your worth, you can still make the most of the day.
The following tips would help in maximising the day amid the pressure to be in a romantic relationship:
1. Learn to love yourself
Self-love doesn’t stop with your heart and spirit, it involves taking good care of your body and mind. Learn how to love yourself – especially when you are feeling lonely on Valentine’s Day.
2. Practise gratitude
Grateful people are happy people. If you focus on what you don’t have, you won’t appreciate what you have. Use the day to celebrate the things you are grateful for, whether big or small. Being alive should be included, it means you can always get another shot and opportunity to do better in your next relationship.
3. Love your singleness
Being single is not a disease. Just know you are not the first and won’t be the last. Enjoy your singleness, it is not going to be like this forever. Invest in yourself to be the kind of woman to the man you desire.
4. Be happy
Life is too short to be unhappy. Live every day to the fullest. Do things that lift your spirit. You may want to give yourself a special treat on Val’s day. It could be a whole day in the spa or you can order your favourite dish or go on an adventure.