Before the plates were set and the food reached the table, there was a gentle rhythm that made dinnertime feel almost sacred. It was never just about eating. It was about the familiar rituals that signalled the end of the day and gathered everyone into one space. They include:
1. The silent call from the kitchen
Long before anyone said Dinner is ready the smell of stew or the sound of plates being set out travelled through the house. It was our cue to start gathering.
2. The shared chores that brought everyone in
Someone fetched water. Someone else wiped the table. Another laid out the plates. These tiny tasks made everyone part of the moment and turned the table into a welcoming place.
3. The routine of washing hands
Whether it was queuing at the tap outside or taking turns at the sink indoors, washing hands was a ritual we took seriously. It was a small act of readiness.
4. The small stories before the meal
There was always a moment when we all waited for the food to be served. In that space, someone would share a quick story about school, work or a neighbour. Those little exchanges brought us closer.
5. The quick inspection from mum or dad
Someone always checked that the table was tidy and everyone was sitting properly. It created a sense of order and respect.
6. The quiet moment of gratitude
Before the first spoon touched the plate, there was always a short prayer or a simple thank you. It set the tone for the rest of the evening.
7. The final signal to start eating
A nod. A smile. A simple You can start. That small moment transformed the ritual into dinner.