Asoebi culture is a cherished tradition in many African communities, especially in Nigeria, where it represents unity, celebration, and a sense of belonging. However, in the spirit of standing out, some people’s asoebi game crosses the line from stylish to downright outrageous. Here are five tell-tale signs you might be overdoing it.
- Your fabric costs more than the event itself
Asoebi fabrics can be pricey, especially when laced with Swarovski crystals, intricate embroidery, or imported from distant lands. If your fabric costs rival or exceed the budget for the entire event, it might be time to reassess. Remember, the essence of asoebi is to complement the celebration, not to outshine the host.
- You’re hiring a stylist for the event
While seeking a professional touch for your outfit is commendable, hiring a full-fledged stylist for a one-day event might be excessive. If your preparations include multiple fittings, detailed mood boards, and a team to execute your vision, you’ve probably taken it too far.
- Your accessories have a life of their own
From towering gele styles to elaborate jewellery sets, accessories can elevate your look. But when your headpiece doubles as a conversation starter or your jewellery jingles loudly with every step, it’s a sign that your asoebi game is edging towards the theatrical. Subtle elegance often makes a stronger statement.
- Your outfit requires a team to wear
If dressing up for an event becomes a group project involving assistants to adjust your gele, secure your outfit, or manage an excessively long train, it’s safe to say your outfit is more of a production than a fashion statement. Opt for ensembles that allow you to move and enjoy the event freely.
- You’re the main attraction, not the celebrant
Asoebi is meant to support the celebrant, not overshadow them. If all eyes are on you instead of the bride, groom, or host, your outfit may have stolen the spotlight for the wrong reasons. Asoebi shines brightest when it enhances the event’s harmony, not creates competition.