Relationships should not with certain conditions but there are some things that can’t be overlooked. These are grounds that no matter what you should not shift. They also come with compromises you should not be making in the first place. You never cross the following line when romantically involved with another:
1.Boundaries
Every relationship needs boundaries that include what is acceptable and what is not. These boundaries cover personal values. It is wrong to let go of them in the name of being in a relationship. For any relationship to run smoothly, there need to boundaries from the onset. It would prevent unnecessary conflicts. Having boundaries is a revealer of your identity, your intentions and that of your partner.
2. Your self-respect
There is no relationship without mutual respect. It is easier to look for a needle in the dark than for two people who disrespect each other to have a successful relationship. Respect is reciprocal, when given, it should be returned. It makes the other person feel appreciated and honoured. If you are with someone who shows signs of disrespect, don’t waste time making excuses for them. It is difficult to change someone’s behaviour, they may probably end up worse as time goes on.
3. Friendships
Being in a relationship does not mean you have to let go of great friendships especially the value-adding ones. Sometimes relationship takes so much, there is so much time invested and it could selfish on one’s path. This does not warrant letting go of other friendships. You still need to bond with friends and family. Some of them were there before the relationship even started. If you are with someone who wants you entirely for themselves at the expense of foregoing other friendships then it is not a good sign.
4. Dreams and aspiration
Don’t give up your lifelong ambitions, dreams and aspirations just because you are with that special someone. If there is genuine love, you would both work together for your common good. You would be in each other’s business with the desire they achieve their future aspirations.