Relationships are unique. There is no one size that fits all. This implies that what works for couple A does not necessarily work for couple B. However there are still standard ingredients that make marriages successful. So if you are single and searching, you can still have the marriage of your dreams. And if you are already married, you can still work at it to keep your marriage stronger.
In singleness phase, it is advisable to not rush the process. When you reach a certain age, chances are you become desperate especially if you are a lady. You don’t need to give up on love because the society makes you feel that you are overly matured. Here are 3 things you need to find the right person:
1.Confidence
You need to let go of self-limiting beliefs that you are not good enough and you will never find the right partner. Also, stop being hard of your self that you are not attractive or good-looking enough. Start seeing yourself in the light that you are worth fighting for. Have confidence in you and all that you are bringing to the relationship. If you have doubts, it would prevent you from the right person. even if you meet someone, once they notice your vulnerability, they can use you.
2.Patience
Good things take time. As earlier mentioned, don’t jump the process. Some people marry very early, other don’t. It is worth waiting for to get the right partner. Would you rather marry immediately or early to end up with the wrong partner or wait long for the right partner?
3. Kindness
There is a nothing attractive by being cocky or rude. Firstly, be kind to yourself, then to people. Treat people the way , you would like to be treated. If your relationships don’t go as planned, you don’t need to run down your partner. Act wisely and maturedly. Be kind, it is good quality that sets an individual apart.
4. Enjoy your company, be fun to be with
If you are always brooding and your appearance, body language and countenance reflects frustration, you would repel a right partner. People are drawn to people who are happy with themselves and fun to be with. Marriage is a long time to spend with someone who isn’t fun. Prove that doing life with you is fun.