If you thought relationship is 50-50, then you are getting it all wrong. It takes the commitment of both parties to make it work. They have to give it 100-100. That way it is sustainable. Or haven’t you seen that after sometime if caution is not taken, both parties lose interest when the relationship loses ‘spice’ and all the butterflies have died. This is why it is important to keep working on your relationship for your good.
Apart from all the relationship ideals everyone already knows – love, trust, communication, etc – happy, long-term couples have little tricks up their sleeves to make their relationship special. These include;
1. Never plan with the other
It does not make sense to make plans that involve your partner without first consulting them. Your plans should fit into theirs. Besides it shows you are carrying them along and they fit into your long term goals. To avoid situations that put your partner in an unfavourable position, include them in your decisions.
2. Let go of the past
The past should be where it is. No need to bring it up. Don’t hold grudges against your partner for what they did in the past especially when they have apologised. Dwelling on past issues will use up all the positive energy.
3. Get more intimate
Don’t create distances between yourself. Make room to enjoy your moments together. Get intimate and rekindle your love. Understand your partner’s love language and use that increase your bond. The hugs, appreciations and every other gesture that makes your partner feel special should never be overlooked.
4. Get away
Do you remember how you and your partner went out on dates? It does not have to stop. You need to do this more often. It could be a weekend getaway or romantic date at your favourite restaurant -just the two of you.