Sex is fun, especially when you are having it with someone who you love and loves you back and then you both explore together. The big issue having sex with your ex, someone you swore you had gotten over. There is no justification whatsoever for this to happen no matter how you want to analyse it and here’s why:
1. It’ll bring back hurtful memories
The relationship ended, you cried over it and thought you had gotten over it and then, why end up again in bed with your ex? You have both moved on, there is no need to rekindle old flames and sleeping together, it would only cause more hurt.
2. You will most likely regret it
You would do a lot of damages to your emotional self and mental esteem after sleeping with an ex. Once you give it up, you’ve turned yourself into a sex maniac – and that means you have signed yourself for depression.
3. It will hold you back
As much as you try and convince yourself you can have casual sex with an ex and still meet someone else, the more your ex is in your life, the harder it will be to move on. You will just become a sex partner to someone who probably will never want you.
4. He is probably using you
You may think no strings attached and sex is all that you want, but deep down you want someone who cares about you for more than how good you are in bed. Your ex clearly doesn’t want to date you, so you’re allowing yourself to simply be a sex toy until there is a replacement.
5. It makes you look cheap
By ending the relationship but still wanting sex, he’s basically saying that he doesn’t want to take you on dates, show you off, or be committed to you, but he still wants you to sleep with him. Do you realize how bad that sounds? Don’t settle for your ex when there are bigger and better partner out there who know what they want.