OK guys, you know you all are guilty when it comes to roving eyes, and given half the chance you will cheat on your spouses. Am I right?
Now, your sister comes to confide in you that she has just discovered that her husband is cheating on her and seeks your advice on whether to leave or stay with him. She does not want to confront him with her findings because she does not know how he will react. Moreover, she still loves him and does not want to lose him. There is also the issue of their four kids to consider. Confronting him would mean having to face the consequences, like opening a can of worms, a process that she is not sure she wants to know how it will end.
So what advice would you give your sister? Would you tell her to put an end to her marriage?
The truth is that most of us will be angry with any man married to our beloved sister who is putting her to through such an emotional trauma by his extramarital affairs. No man has the right to treat your sister badly. If you had your way, you will go over to his house and not only give him a good talking-to, but you may manhandle him. How dare he have the audacity to treat your sister badly? Who does he think he is?
So guys, when you are tempted to stray as a married man, remember how you will feel if your sister came to you for advice with the problem of a philandering husband, because your wife is also someone’s sister.
By the way, will you tell your sister to stay or leave? We won’t kid ourselves, we are very much aware that the decision is not as easy one. If your sister chooses to stay, then what effort should be put towards resolving the issue? Hmmm? You are quite lost in thought, because there are no easy answers to these questions.
So next time you want to play outside your matrimonial home, remember that there are no easy answers to resolving the issue of marital infidelity.