Dear Dorothy,
I’m in my late 40s, and I’ve been contemplating going back to school to complete my degree. I left college years ago to focus on raising my children and building a career, but now that my kids are grown, I feel like it’s time to pursue my own dreams. However, I can’t shake the feeling that I’m too old to return to school. The thought of being surrounded by younger students makes me anxious, and I worry that I won’t be able to keep up with the demands of studying after so many years away. Is it too late for me to go back to school, or should I just let this dream go?
Sincerely,
Blessing
Dear Dorothy,
First and foremost, let me assure you that it’s never too late to pursue your dreams, including going back to school. Education is a lifelong journey, and your age is not a barrier to learning—it’s an asset. Your life experiences, the challenges you’ve overcome, and the wisdom you’ve gained over the years will enrich your educational journey in ways that younger students might not yet appreciate.
Feeling anxious about returning to school is natural, especially when you’re worried about being surrounded by younger students. But here’s the thing: the classroom today is more diverse than ever. People from all walks of life, and of all ages, are returning to education for various reasons. You won’t be alone in your journey, and many of your classmates will likely admire your courage and determination.
As for keeping up with the demands of studying, give yourself some credit! You’ve successfully managed a household, raised children, and built a career—those are no small feats. Yes, it may take some time to get back into the swing of academic life, but you have the discipline, focus, and experience that will serve you well.
Instead of seeing your age as a disadvantage, try to view it as a unique strength. You’re going back to school not just to get a degree, but to fulfill a long-held dream. That motivation will drive you through any challenges you may face.
Take it one step at a time. Start by exploring part-time courses, online classes, or evening programs that fit your schedule. Connect with other mature students or seek out support services that many schools offer to help adult learners succeed. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey.
So, no, it’s not too late. Your dream of going back to school is valid, and it’s entirely within your reach. Go for it, and take pride in knowing that you’re setting a powerful example—not just for yourself, but for your children and everyone else who might feel like it’s “too late” to chase their dreams.
Warmest Regards,
Dorothy