Dear Dorothy,
My partner has developed a passion for musical theatre. Suddenly she’s going all over the country; booking hotels and buying tickets for shows. I fear she’s actually meeting up with another man for sex. Yet, when I accuse her of this she says that I’ve got a horrible mind. What could be going on?
Yours Sincerely,
M.P
Dear M.P,
Why can’t you start visiting hotels and new places together? You need to level with your partner and make it clear that this is not the way you wish to live your life. You hate being left alone while she travels around.
Sadly, if the musical theatre story does turn out to be a front for an affair, then what has prompted her desire to cheat? Can you, as a couple, come back from this? Are you willing to give her a second chance? This doesn’t have to be the end, but there are clearly many problems that need to be discussed and resolved.
Yours Truly,
Dorothy