Dear Dorothy,
I am writing to seek your advice concerning a marital issue. My parents do not like my boyfriend. They feel he is a time-waster. According to them, having potentials is not enough. We having been dating for close to a year now. I have tried to win them over and make them understand we love each other and have big plans. According to The thing is I want to settle down this year as soon as possible before hitting the big 30. Should I go ahead with my marriage decision at the expense of my family’s refusal?
My Dear,
I think you should take your time. Marriage is a lifetime investment that you should not rush into because of pressure. Your family has a valid reason for accepting him. Most times, when we fall in love we fail to see the wrongs in our partner. It takes another person to decode the possible threats and outcomes. As for your boyfriend, just having potentials. I think that those are never enough. Has he shown a track record of hard work, commitment, and consistency? Both of you would be entering an institution that requires financing and other things. You would want to go in prepared. Please take your time with your boyfriend, Time is the revealer of everything. If he still doesn’t show he is promising and your family still rejects him you may want to put a hold to your relationship.
Yours truly,
Dorothy