Seeing someone you like and starting a conversation can be awkward. On the part of the man, he may feel the nudge to initiate the conversation. Several thoughts may cross his mind. He would think of all that can go wrong and right.
In any case, if he likes the lady, he should still go ahead and ‘try his luck’. First impressions are lasting impressions. So the man should make effort to make it happen. Here’s how:
1. Confidence
Approaching a lady especially in public for the first time takes a lot of gut. The man needs to be confident. As much as possible, he should maintain eye contact and portray strong body language. There is a difference between being cocky, forceful, or haughty. He should draw the line and make the lady be drawn to him.
2. Timing
A man should pay attention to the timing. If the lady is in a bad mood, it is obvious she would shun him. If she is in the company of several friends, it may not be wise to meet her. He has to be strategic in his approach and how he plans to make a ‘smooth entry’.
3. Pay her compliments
Every woman likes compliments. The man should do well to compliment the woman he admires. He should not do it excessively but be genuine. She would know when he is flattering her or being honest. Don’t use suggestive compliments. Show that you took note of something about her appearance or looks. It could be her hair, eyes, dress or shoes.
4. Use open-ended questions
The last thing a man should do in such a situation is asking close-ended questions. It would be boring and awkward. with open-ended questions, it leaves the floor open for more conversations.
5. Don’t overstay your welcome
When the man and woman get talking and establish a connection. The man should know when to leave and not be too clingy. It makes him unforgettable and makes him desirable.