My Dear,
This is really an unfortunate situation, but you need to quit worrying so you can focus on practical steps to get yourself out of this mess. I’ll advise you to sort this out now without delay since you aren’t considering abortion. If you procrastinate and kept quiet, your baby bump will speak for itself.
We all get things wrong at some point in our lives and have to accept the consequences. Most men I know find it difficult to deal with their wives infidelity but, if you really love your husband the sooner you come clean with him, the better it’ll be for everyone – even if it’ll result in a divorce.
Whichever way you play this, it is bound to affect your relationship, so, you just have to bite the bullet. Your husband will feel angry, hurt and betrayed but I pray that you both can keep a cool head to talk things through calmly.
As for the child, it’s not unknown for men to adopt someone else’s child as their own and love them like theirs, so I hope this will be the case for you. I also hope for the best solution in this complex situation.
Good luck,
Dorothy.
Dear readers, what would you advise her to do? Please drop your opinion.