There are women who are lonely because they are alone. Despite being of age to be in a healthy relationship, they are still in the game of searching – they’ve gone past waiting to be found. Most times, these ladies become desperate and irate at the sparseness of available men, or men who are willing to be with them, that they settle for the next bad relationship, and stick to it.
It is worsened when all they see online are wedding hullaballoo’s and hashtags aimed at garnering envy, or when wedding pictures of their friends filter through and flood their Facebook timeline. (They’ve also spent a fortune buying asoebi.) It has become a cause for concern.
How do most women get to the point of being desperate for companionship? It is not unusual for women – from an early age – to meet and interact with young men; however, they don’t take the time to give these men a chance to get to know them. They ignore a myriad of men as they focus on sieving out the right qualities and retaining the trivial ones – charm, looks, and riches.
It is possible that, that ‘ordinary looking’ man you are ignoring may be your ‘Mr Right’. Your surreal imaginations of love, marriage and the right man may cause you more loss than gain. So, instead, develop a list of qualities that matter most in life – loyalty, spirituality, patience, et cetera.
A great advice would be for you to approach men who are genuinely interested in you with an open mind and get to know them first before shutting them down. Yes, he may be an average guy, even barely pleasing to the eyes but he may also be your ticket to a life full of companionship, happiness and joy. Always remember, Rome was not built in a day.