My dear,
I am yet to fathom why a good number of men obsess over the size of their manhood. The million-dollar question is: does the size of a man’s tool matter during lovemaking?
This issue has been debated by scientists, therapists and among men and women for several years. There have been legitimate studies dedicated to getting to the bottom of this. And in a recent poll, a promising 84% of ladies reported they were more than satisfied with their man’s member.
So the major problem here is your lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. You are setting yourself up for failure by doing what most of us are guilty of – comparing yourself with others and wondering if you measure up.
You have to work on your self-esteem by focusing on only the positives. You may also need professional counselling to help you in this regard. And once you change your mindset, you’ll find a drastic improvement to your love life.
In my opinion, it’s not the size that matters; it is what you do with it. And there are many ways to satisfy a woman other than penetrative sex. If you meet a girl who dumps you because of the sex, then she’s not the right one for you. Your confidence will grow naturally when you do meet the right woman for you. And believe me, your soul mate is out there and you will be serendipitously led to her.
Regarding your premature ejaculation, though it is a psychological problem of anxiety rather than a physical one, there are techniques you can use to prolong lovemaking. Make sex more about foreplay, and not just penetration. Practice prolonging your lovemaking by stopping before you climax. Try this technique during foreplay with a partner or when you’re on your own to help you learn to control your ejaculatory process.
Take it easy with yourself; I am sure you will find the love of your life in the not too distant future. Good luck.