Growing up in Africa, our mothers had a way of saying things that stayed with us for life. Some were warnings, some were lessons, and some just made us laugh. Here are some of the memorable things African mothers told us.
1. If you keep making that face, it will stay like that
From frowning at food you didn’t like to pulling a funny face in class, this was the ultimate threat. Somehow, it always worked, and we grew up keeping our expressions in check.
2. Finish your plate, or there will be consequences
Nothing taught discipline quite like a mother staring at your half-eaten food. Wasting food was never an option because somewhere, somehow, someone was going hungry.
3. Money doesn’t grow on trees
This phrase was repeated so often that it became part of our DNA. Every request for extra pocket money came with this gentle reminder that life requires hard work and responsibility.
4. Don’t talk with your mouth full
A simple rule that covered manners, hygiene, and respect all at once. Ignoring it was never an option at the dinner table.
5. If you play with fire, you will get burned
African mothers knew life came with consequences. Whether literal or metaphorical, this was their way of preparing us for the real world.
6. When I was your age, I walked ten kilometres to school
No matter the distance, the weather, or how difficult life seemed, our mothers always had a story of their own struggles to remind us that we were not alone.
7. Respect your elders
From greetings to listening before speaking, this was drilled into us from day one. Respect was a currency that mattered more than anything else.
8. Don’t bring shame to this family
A warning that stayed with us through school, work, and social life. It reminded us to carry ourselves with dignity, no matter where we were.
9. You can do anything if you set your mind to it
Amid the strict rules and constant advice, this was the message that encouraged us to dream big and believe in ourselves.
10. Your body is a temple
Whether talking about health, modesty, or behaviour, African mothers always made sure we understood the importance of taking care of ourselves.
Growing up with African mothers meant living with a mix of wisdom, humour, and discipline. Their words might have sounded strict at the time, but looking back, we realise they shaped us in ways we will forever be grateful for.