Dear Dorothy,
Trust you are doing well. I have an issue. Ever since I started dating this particular guy, he asks me what am I bringing to the table. This is because I told him he would need to show more commitment so we get married. When I told him I have the ‘hottest body’, he said that was that all. According to him, he sees hot bodies every day and mine was not special. What do you think I can use to keep him committed?
Regards,
Aurora
Dear Aurora,
Thanks for the pleasantries. I trust you are doing same too. Borrowing from the parable in the bible about the ‘ten virgins’, you find that it was only the virgins with extra oil that got to meet with the bridegroom. This means you must have something ‘extra’ that is far from status quo or the usual. Look within what are those things that make you special and would make any guy want to commit spending the rest of his life with you. You shouldn’t rely on sex alone, these days it comes at cheaper prices. There must be something about you that makes him want to commit to this lifelong marital journey. That is why you should focus on personal development and please ensure you are whole before allowing another person to complete you. I hope you take these cues and have the marriage of your dreams.
Sincerely,
Dororthy