Men who cheat on their wives often sweet talk their side chics with unfulfilled promises. Most times, they never really want to leave their wives in order to marry these other women. These men who cheat on their wives always seem excited juggling their lives and sharing their time between their family and their secret lovers.
There are several reasons why married men don’t intend to leave their wives for side choices and these are as follows:
1.It boosts their ego
Men recognize the high standing they have in society as married people and they usually do not want to lose out on that. Most times, these cheating men are respected members of society’s institutions like churches, mosques, companies, etc. So they don’t want to leave their wives to be with the side chick, mistress or sugar girl because of what society would say.
2. Their wives enable them
There is a general statement that “all men cheat” and “it’s fine if he cheats so far he respects me enough to keep it away from me,”. With these, women have given men the go-ahead to cheat as they want. It appears that there is an expected level of standard of faithfulness and wives allow these men to roam and they later come back to the forgiving arms of their wives.
3. These married men love their wives
It is confusing how someone would love his wife and still cheat on her but it does seem to happen. People who claim to love their wives have been known to have side chicks despite being a devoted husband. Many times for this kind of man, the side chick is just all fun and games and he must have already compartmentalized his mind to keep it that way forever.
4. These married men consider their children
Married men don’t leave their wives for side chicks because they want their children to grow in a ‘functional’ home as a ‘complete’ and ‘united’ family.
5. There seems to be an understanding between the married man and side chic
Why get the cow, when milk is for free? The understanding that the married men can be satisfied and at the end of the day go back to their wives seems to augur well with both parties- married man and side chic.