Do you suspect that your wife is cheating on you? If you do, you are definitely not alone. Infidelity is actually quite common these days. You can see it all over television and almost everyone has known someone who has been cheated on, in one way or another.
If you are a husband who thinks that your wife is cheating on you, there are a number of signs that you will want to be on the lookout for. The following are four signs that could very well confirm your suspicions.
- A Change in Appearance
If your wife has gone through a change in appearance, it could be a sign that she is cheating on you. What you will want to look for is any significant changes in appearance. For example, has she always worn glasses but has all of a sudden opted for contact lenses? Has your wife recently started exposing more of her body? Dressing provocatively is a common sign of cheating, especially if your wife typically dresses conservatively. Switching perfumes or wearing it more often can be another sign of cheating. These moves may be her effort to impress a new man.
- A Change in Affection
A change in the amount of affection that your wife gives you could be seen as a sign that she is having an affair. For example, has your love life been happy, affectionate, and intimate in the past? Were you both relaxed and comfortable with each other? If so, has that changed? If your wife no longer pays you personal attention, compliments you as she did before or cringes involuntarily when you make a move to kiss her or show her affection, an affair may be going on. Many cheating women try to avoid close contact with their husbands in fear of getting caught or letting their guilt show.
- Secrecy
A wife becoming more secretive can often point to an extramarital affair. For example, does your wife spend too much time on the phone or the Internet? Does your wife automatically hang-up the phone whenever you walk into a room? Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it? If so, your wife’s secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.
What does she say when you ask her who called or what she is doing online? If you receive a nothing, or a not your business, response, something may be going on.
- Going out more than usual
One of the simplest ways to catch a cheating wife is to note any change in the pattern with respect to how often she now goes out and the reasons she gives for the outings. If your wife’s routine changes with respect to her being outside the house more often then usual and variation in the times she gets home, then she may be cheating on you.
The mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for in a cheating wife. If you think that your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open. Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes. Many women get so comfortable, that they slip up at one time or another. If you know what to look for, this is when you may be able to catch your wife cheating.
If you do find out that your wife is cheating on you, you may want to carefully approach the subject. Never confront your wife in front of your children. No matter how angry you are, do not get violent and try to keep your voice at a reasonable level. As hard as it may be, calming approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion.
Now that you have found out that your wife is cheating on you, what next?
This is a complex question. Next week we examine what you can do when you find out your wife is cheating on you.