So you are single? You are not the first and won’t be the last. Also note that it is just a phase and not a disease. Life is in seasons and it depends on how you maximise them.
Singlehood is the phase of one life before marriage. It comes with its advantages and disadvantages. One thing that stands out is freedom to be yourself. Truth is, you are not going to remain single forever. There is someone for everybody.
While you are it, don’t forget to pursue your career, get more education and be you! Here are other 5 things to do to maximise your singleness:
1. Take care of yourself
If you don’t love yourself, how do you expect somebody else to love you? Use your singleness to care for yourself. Don’t neglect your body. Practice good hygiene. Dress well. Eat good food. Stay fit. Invest in your mind. Read books that would build you up. It is okay to be self absorbed but also practise giving.
2. Develop your talents
If you love singing, you may want to join the choristers in your local church. You can plan going professional. If you love to write, develop it and use for generate income. Now is the time to prune your skills and talents. You can only think of one person now. When you are married, you think for two and also include your children.
3. Volunteer for worthy causes
You don’t have to be involved in only activities that pay money. There are other benefits of offering services, time, advice, effort and commitment for free. You build a large network, you gather experience and you are more fulfilled. You can volunteer for youth, women, politics, human rights or any other cause that interests you.
4. Travel more
You might be an indoor person but the feeling of the outside world is incomparable. Through travel, you learn about new cultures, new people and new language. Travelling opens your eyes and you have an informed view of the world. It is also a fun way to learn and stay invigorated.
5. Get closer to your maker
Depending on your faith, you should use your singleness to develop a stronger relationship with God. Know that it is difficult for anything to function outside its purpose. One can only know purpose through the maker. Use this period to be stronger in your beliefs and value system.