By the age of 40, most men have experienced a fair share of life’s ups and downs, from early career hurdles to relationship triumphs and failures, to finding a deeper sense of purpose. It’s an age where perspective matters more than bravado, and wisdom is far more valuable than wit. Literature can offer the sort of insight and understanding that helps men reflect on their journey, grow in emotional intelligence, and better navigate life’s complexities. Here’s a curated list of books every man should read before turning 40 (these are a blend of fiction, non-fiction, and philosophy) 1. Meditations by…
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Dear Dorothy, I’m an Ibadan woman living in the UK and I’m deeply ashamed of my accent. I’ve been here for a few years now and I’ve noticed that people often ask me to repeat myself or laugh subtly when I speak. In professional settings, I feel overlooked or not taken seriously, and I can’t help but think it’s because of how I sound. I’ve tried to soften my accent but it feels fake. Still, I dread speaking in meetings or making phone calls. I love my country, but my voice betrays me. I feel stuck between being true to…
Children’s Day is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the joy, innocence, and creativity that children bring into our lives. While every day should ideally honour their growth and happiness, today presents a chance to go the extra mile. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, guardian, or simply someone with young ones in your life, here are meaningful and memorable ways to make this Children’s Day truly special. Start the day with a surprise There’s nothing like waking up to a cheerful surprise. Start the morning with a handwritten note, a small gift, or even breakfast in bed. A colourful balloon arrangement…
In an age dominated by dating apps and social media, the art of finding love can feel like it’s constantly evolving. Swiping left or right has become second nature, and virtual dates have replaced the charm of face-to-face conversations. However, as the world speeds up, some old-fashioned ways of finding love continue to hold their ground, proving that sometimes, the traditional approach still works best. Here are some time-tested ways of finding love that are still effective today: 1. Meeting through friendsBefore algorithms took over, friends played matchmaker. Being introduced to someone through mutual friends not only provides a sense…
Persuasion is an essential skill in both professional and personal life. Whether you are a business leader pitching a new idea, a teacher guiding students, or a friend offering advice, your ability to persuade can shape outcomes, influence decisions and build meaningful relationships. But persuasion is not about manipulation. At its core, it is about understanding others, building trust and communicating effectively. Understanding Persuasion Persuasion is more than just presenting logical arguments. It involves appealing to emotions, establishing credibility and aligning your message with your audience’s values. Aristotle defined persuasion through three key elements: ethos (credibility), pathos (emotional appeal) and…
Readings: Acts 15:1-2, 22-29; Psalm 67; Apocalypse 21:10-14, 22-23; John 14:23-29 Grace and peace be multiplied to you, my dear brothers and sisters in the Lord. We give thanks to God for His goodness and mercy, which endure forever. I believe the Lord has a powerful message and a life-transforming blessing for us today. In the Gospel, Jesus speaks to His disciples about keeping His Word, His return to the Father, the coming of the Holy Spirit, and the gift of peace. I would like us to focus today on the Holy Spirit as a Teacher. Jesus says, “The Holy…
When used correctly, highlighter and concealer can elevate your makeup routine and give your face a refreshed, radiant look. However, misusing them can lead to an uneven finish or draw attention to areas you’d rather keep subtle. Whether you’re a beginner or looking to refine your technique, here’s a guide to the dos and don’ts of applying highlighter and concealer. Highlighter -Do choose the right shade for your skin toneA good highlighter should complement your complexion. If you have fair skin, go for pearl or champagne tones. Medium skin tones look great with peach or rose gold shades, while deeper…
In a world that often celebrates independence, self-reliance, and individual achievement, it’s easy to fall into the belief that we must navigate life’s journey alone. But the truth is: life is not a solo event. From the moment we are born, we are part of a network of connections — family, friends, mentors, colleagues, even strangers who touch our lives in small but meaningful ways. These relationships shape us, support us, challenge us, and remind us that we are not isolated islands. The Myth of Self-Sufficiency Modern culture often romanticises the “self-made” individual — the person who, through sheer willpower…
It’s a question that has echoed through generations, often posed with a smile that masks the pressure behind it: “So, when will you marry?” Whether you’re at a family gathering, a friend’s wedding, or even just chatting with a well-meaning neighbour, the question can feel like a loaded one, especially if you’re not currently planning a wedding or even in a relationship. In many cultures, particularly in Africa, marriage is seen not just as a personal milestone but as a collective one. It’s often treated as a rite of passage and a marker of maturity or success. Yet, people are…
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