What happens when a woman trained to understand the earth decides to spend her career helping people understand the world around them? For our Woman Crush Wednesday, Merab Tary Dorgu, the answer has been a journey through geology, sustainability, technology and communications with one idea tying it all together: knowledge is most powerful when people can understand it well enough to act on it. As a woman from the Niger Delta, Merab’s interest in sustainability is more than a professional choice. She comes from a region that contributes significantly to Nigeria’s wealth but has also lived with the consequences of…
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For decades, the word coup has been part of Africa’s political vocabulary. From the overthrow of Egypt’s King Farouk in 1952 to the military takeovers that have returned to the headlines in recent years, several African countries have experienced moments when elected governments, presidents or other political leaders were removed from power outside the normal constitutional process. A coup d’état is generally understood as an illegal and overt attempt by the military or other actors within the state apparatus to remove a sitting government or executive. Researchers Jonathan Powell and Clayton Thyne have documented hundreds of coup attempts around the…
Growing up, many men are taught to chase success before they are taught to understand themselves. Get a good job. Make money. Build a house. Get married. Have children. Take care of your family. These are not bad goals, but life is bigger than a checklist. At some point, every man has to pause and ask himself some uncomfortable questions. What kind of man do I want to become? What am I willing to sacrifice? What do I want my life to stand for? What will I refuse to compromise, even when nobody is watching? There are certain decisions that…
Finding an affordable place to live in Lagos can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. With rising rents and increasing demand for housing, many residents are looking beyond the usual neighbourhoods to find homes that offer reasonable prices without being too far from the city’s major areas. If you are house hunting on a budget, here are five areas in Lagos worth considering. 1. Ikorodu Ikorodu remains one of the more affordable areas for people who want to rent or buy property in Lagos without spending a fortune. The area has a growing number of estates,…
Dear Dorothy, I have been married for three years, and I am finding it increasingly difficult to get along with my in-laws. From the beginning, I have tried my best to respect them and make them feel welcome, but I often feel that whatever I do is never good enough. My mother-in-law especially has a way of criticising how I run my home, cook, and even relate to my husband. Sometimes she makes comments that hurt me, but I usually keep quiet to avoid creating problems. The situation is becoming stressful because I love my husband and do not want…
Romance doesn’t always require expensive gifts, fancy dinners, or elaborate surprises. Sometimes, the little things make your spouse feel loved, appreciated, and remembered. Whether you have been married for a few months or several years, thoughtful gestures can help keep the affection alive. Here are five romantic gestures your spouse would love. 1. Leave them a sweet note A short handwritten note can make an ordinary day feel special. You could leave one in their bag, beside their bed, or somewhere they will find it unexpectedly. It could simply say, “I love you,” “Thank you for everything you do” or…
Your career is an important part of your life, but that does not mean everyone needs to know everything about it. We live in a time when people share career updates, workplace experiences and professional milestones online. While there is nothing wrong with celebrating your progress, some things are better kept private. Knowing what to share and what to keep to yourself can save you unnecessary drama and protect your professional reputation. Here are some things you may want to keep private about your career. Your Salary Not everyone needs to know how much you earn. Your salary is personal…
Readings: Isaiah 55:6-9; Psalm 144; Philippians 1:20-24; Matthew 20:1-16 Grace and peace to you, dear brothers and sisters in the Lord. Today is the 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A. We have very beautiful readings before us, with profound lessons for our lives. Jesus tells a striking parable in the Gospel: the parable of the workers in the vineyard. It is a parable many people find difficult to justify. Yet, even in that difficulty, the wisdom of God is revealed. The dominant message of the parable for me is this: do not compare your life with that of others.…
Your wedding day is one of those occasions when you want to look like yourself, only a little more polished, radiant and camera-ready. While hiring a professional makeup artist can take away some of the pressure, creating your own wedding makeup can also be a beautiful option, especially if you already know what works for your skin and feel confident with a makeup brush. The secret to great DIY wedding makeup is preparation. Your wedding day is not the time to experiment with a completely new look. Practise your chosen makeup several times before the big day, and take photos…
Your eyebrows may be small features on your face, but they can make a big difference to your overall appearance. The right brow shape can frame your eyes, lift your face and make you look more polished, even when you are wearing very little makeup. The good news is that you do not need to be a professional makeup artist to get beautiful brows. A few simple tricks can make your routine easier and help you achieve a neat, natural-looking finish. 1. Find your natural brow shape Before reaching for your tweezers, take a good look at your eyebrows. Your…