There was a time when all you needed to hear was your mother calling your full name to know that you were in trouble. No mobile phone, no tracking device and certainly no security camera. Somehow, she always knew when you had done something you were not supposed to do. Looking back, one cannot help but wonder if African mothers came with special powers that the rest of us are yet to discover. Growing up in an African home was an experience of its own. Our mothers were disciplinarians, counsellors, chefs, nurses, teachers, financial managers and prayer warriors. They wore…
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Dongoyaro, commonly known as the neem tree, is a familiar sight in many parts of Nigeria. Its leaves have been used in traditional medicine for generations, with people turning to them for various health and skin care purposes. The tree, scientifically known as Azadirachta indica, is valued for its bitter leaves, seeds, bark and other parts, which contain natural compounds that researchers continue to study. Although dongoyaro has a long history of traditional use, it is important to distinguish between its potential health benefits and effects that have been firmly established by scientific research. Here are some of the possible…
Terrorism has affected countries across different continents, leaving behind a trail of violence, loss of lives, displacement and economic hardship. From attacks on public spaces to kidnappings, bombings and armed assaults, acts of terrorism have created fear and insecurity in communities around the world. Although terrorism takes different forms and is driven by various political, religious, ideological and separatist motives, its consequences are often similar. Families lose loved ones, businesses are disrupted, communities are displaced and governments are forced to invest heavily in security. Here are some countries that have witnessed terrorism and the impact it has had on their…
Finding a place to rent in Abuja can be challenging, especially when you are working with a limited budget. While some parts of the Federal Capital Territory are known for expensive houses and high rents, there are other areas where you can find accommodation without spending all your savings. The trick is knowing where to look and considering factors such as transport costs, access to work, security, water supply and other basic amenities. If you are planning to move to Abuja or simply looking for a more affordable place to live, here are five areas worth considering. 1. Lugbe Lugbe…
Dear Dorothy, I have been struggling with impostor syndrome for some time, and I honestly do not know how to deal with it. Whenever I achieve something good, I find it difficult to feel proud of myself. Instead, I keep wondering whether I truly deserve it or whether I was simply lucky. At work, I sometimes feel that other people are more intelligent and capable than I am. Even when I receive compliments for doing a good job, I find it difficult to believe them. I often worry that someone will eventually discover that I am not as good as…
Building a successful career takes more than hard work. It requires self-belief, the courage to pursue new opportunities, the ability to communicate one’s value and the wisdom to navigate challenges along the way. For women, particularly those working in spaces where they are underrepresented, the journey can come with additional pressures that are not always recognised. Our Woman of the Month, Octavia Goredema MBE, understands these challenges and has dedicated her career to helping professionals discover their potential and thrive in the workplace. An accomplished author, career coach and podcast host, she has worked with thousands of professionals, including leaders…
When we think about romance, we often picture candlelit dinners, surprise gifts, weekend getaways and beautiful love notes. While these gestures are lovely, there are other ways to make your spouse feel loved that have nothing to do with flowers, fancy restaurants or spending money. Sometimes, the things that make a marriage sweeter are the ordinary things we do for each other every day. They may not look romantic, but they can mean a great deal to the person on the receiving end. Here are five unromantic gestures your spouse would probably appreciate more than you think. 1. Doing the…
Not everybody needs to know everything about your business. Learn what to share, what to protect and when to keep quiet. Running a business requires more than having a good idea, finding customers and making sales. It also requires wisdom, especially when deciding what information to share with others. In a world where social media encourages people to document almost every aspect of their lives, it is easy to feel that you must share your business journey with everyone. From your latest client to your next big idea, there is always something to post or discuss. However, being open about…
Readings: Isaiah 45:1, 4-6; Psalm 96; 1 Thessalonians 1:1-5; Matthew 22:15-21 Grace and peace to you, my dear brothers and sisters in the Lord. Today is the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A. It is also Mission Sunday. Our reflection will be based on the readings for the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time, but I will end by connecting today’s message to our mission as Christians. We have an awful lot to learn from today’s Gospel. Three years ago, I preached about the malice of conspiracy, the danger of careless words, the danger of flattery, the gift of discernment,…
There is something about a well-drawn winged eyeliner that makes a beauty look feel complete. Whether you are heading to work, attending a wedding or going out with friends, a little flick at the corner of your eyes can make a difference. The only problem is getting both eyes to look the same. One wing may turn out perfectly, while the other seems to have a mind of its own. If you have ever wiped off your eyeliner several times because the wings refused to match, you are not alone. The good news is that you do not need to…