Guys watch your work schedule. Fact is overwork can affect sexual performance. Working two or three jobs, or long hours to make more money could really put the spanners in the works when it comes to your sex life.
Simple. Working too hard could make you worn out and just tired – so tired, the last thing on your mind is not cuddling up to a loved one but going straight to bed and getting some sleep. Sex? You got to be kidding. All you want to do is rest. Good sex takes some energy.
The modern man is regularly faced with this dilemma. And not just the man. Most women have demanding jobs these days too. So, for most couples, sexual intimacy is a problem. Where both partners work to make ends meet or to buy that extra something, it makes intimacy next to impossible. Both partners are usually worn out by the time they come home and hit the sack without any sexual connection.
This lack of intimacy can lead to problems with the relationship. For many couples sexual intimacy is the glue that keeps them together. Without it relationships often crumble. And it is important to recognize this fact, and take the necessary steps to remedy it. If you are faced with this challenge, you and your partner need to sit down and have a serious discussion about your relationship, especially a “sexual conversation” before it is too late.
How can you as a team do the needful to ensure that neither your work nor your relationship suffers? You both have to figure out how to balance your working life and your relationship life (with respect to sexual intimacy). You both can reconnect by giving sex a higher priority.
We as humans often make out time to do things we are passionate about, no matter how busy we are. Are you passionate about your partner? If so, there must time you both should carve out – just to be with each other! Do not leave your sex life in the doldrums, or let it die from neglect.