There is no perfect relationship. It is the coming together of two imperfect persons to make a perfect union. This is why there is need for constant work to make it work. During the dating phase, here are 5 things you can do to make it work and enjoy it:
1. Respect each other
Respect each other’s interests, opinions and preferences. Know that your partner still have an identity outside of you. It is normal for the interests to conflict and complement yours. So be open to sharing your thoughts on issues and even if they conflict with that of your partner, disagree respectfully. The more you know about each other’s interests and preferences, the better you know about them and build together.
2. Take vacations together
Take time to unwind to let go og the stress. Make plans with your partner and take a soothing vacation together. Planning ahead of time for a vacation or that getaway not only strengthens your bond but spending a romantic time doing fun stuff together also refreshes and renews both your love and you as a person.
3. Spice up your sex life
A boring sex life can affect your relationship with your partner. Try to be spontaneous and be always be willing to rejuvenate things. Be open to learning about your partner’s preferences, likes and dislikes and fantasies. Discover each other’s bodies as this will both be exciting and revealing at the same time, and you will find yourselves discovering new things about each other.
4. Give compliments
Don’t hold back, tell your partner the things you like about them. Make a habit of appreciating their personality or little things they did the day before even the ones they didn’t realise that they were doing. When you apreciate your partner, it encourages them to do more.
5. Establish goals together
Create some goals that you can work on together as a couple. It may include a financial goal, such as saving a certain amount of money to go to on a vacation. Or, it could include a fitness goal, such as running a half marathon together. Working toward your goals can help you feel like a team and gives you new things to talk about and do together.