Dear Dorothy, I never imagined I would be writing in, but here I am. I’ve worked incredibly hard over the years to get where I am professionally, I’ve ticked every box. Promotions, accolades, financial stability… all of it. On paper, I’m winning. But lately, I find myself feeling more isolated than ever. Friends don’t quite relate anymore. My family assumes I’ve “made it” and don’t check in as often. At work, I’m the boss; respected, yes but not confided in or truly seen. I find myself asking: is this what success is meant to feel like? Why does it feel…
Author: Pride Team
The second half of the year is the perfect time to reset your goals and refocus your energy. Whether you’re eyeing a promotion, looking to pivot into a new field, or simply eager to become more effective at what you do, the right book can provide the clarity and motivation you need. These 5 carefully selected reads offer practical insights, mindset shifts, and real-world strategies that can help you elevate your career trajectory. 1. Deep Work by Cal Newport In a world filled with constant distractions, Newport’s book is a timely reminder of the power of focused effort. Deep Work…
In a healthy relationship, love, respect and mutual support should be at the core. However, sometimes one partner may begin to take more than they give, often without even realising it. If your connection with your significant other feels more transactional than emotional, it might be time for some honest self-reflection. Here are some subtle and not-so-subtle signs that your partner might be ‘using’ you: 1. They only reach out when they need something Is your partner calling or messaging you mainly when they need help, money, or a favour? If their communication centres more around their needs than shared…
Ireke is a unique feat of cinematography that feels less like the unbelievable debut it is and more like the work of a seasoned veteran. With masterful cinematography and a compelling narrative, the film reclaims a chapter of Black history too often ignored: the story of the Maroons, a group of enslaved Africans who resisted colonial oppression and carved out freedom on their own terms. Set during the harrowing era of the transatlantic slave trade, Ireke is not just a film about suffering but it is a film about fighting back. With themes of religion, power, and rebellion, it places…
Readings: Isaiah 66:10–14; Psalm 66; Galatians 6:14–18; Luke 10:1–12, 17–20 Grace, mercy and peace to you my dear brothers and sisters in the Lord. Today is the 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C. In today’s Gospel, we have the account of how Jesus sent out seventy-two others to join in His mission – the mission of teaching, healing and saving souls. In this beautiful passage, I want us to pick and reflect on three messages: I. The harvest is plentiful but the labourers are few Dear friends, what Jesus said to the disciples is still true today. The harvest…
Our Woman Crush Wednesday, Esther Umelo is a broadcast journalist with a passion for telling impactful stories and sharing reliable information. She studied Mass Communication and Linguistics at the University of Port Harcourt and began her media journey as a red-carpet host for Light TV Africa. She later co-hosted E-Talk on Silverbird Television. During her National Youth Service in Abia State, Esther worked at Vision Africa Radio 104.1 FM. Her creativity and professionalism led to her being retained immediately after her service year – a first in the station’s history. She went on to anchor Issues, a well-regarded political programme…
Taking care of yourself is not a luxury but a necessity. Self-care goes beyond pampering. It is about creating space to nurture your mental, emotional, physical and spiritual wellbeing. If you have been meaning to be more intentional about self-care, here are important boxes to tick on your list. These habits can help protect your peace, boost your energy and create a better relationship with yourself. Get enough rest Sleep is not something to squeeze in. It is a non-negotiable part of your well-being. Aim for seven to nine hours of quality sleep each night. Rest also includes pausing during…
Dear Dorothy, I’ve been struggling with something that I can’t seem to shake off. A few months ago, I was offered a chance to speak at a major industry event, a platform I’ve dreamed of for years. But at the time, I was overwhelmed with work, lacked confidence, and convinced myself I wasn’t ready. So I declined. Since then, I’ve seen others in my field take up similar opportunities and grow in visibility, while I feel like I’m standing still. I can’t stop thinking about what might have been if I had said yes. I feel like I failed myself,…
Not every star shines the loudest. In a world captivated by bright lights and loud applause, it’s easy to overlook the quiet ones—the children who don’t race to the front of the line, who speak softly, who don’t beg for attention but observe from the edges. We celebrate brilliance, often mistaking visibility for value. But some of the most powerful light doesn’t announce itself; it glows gently, steadily, waiting in the shadows to be noticed. Some glow quietly, in dark corners—waiting to be noticed. There are children whose talents don’t scream, but whisper. They may not win every prize or…
Dating a younger man can be an exciting and rewarding experience. It often brings a fresh perspective, renewed energy and a different kind of emotional connection. While age might just be a number, it is important to approach such relationships with understanding, confidence and clarity. Here are some helpful tips for navigating a successful relationship with a younger partner. Be confident in yourself Confidence is attractive at any age. If you are dating someone younger, it is crucial to own your experiences, your individuality and your lifestyle. Avoid comparing yourself to women his age or feeling the need to compete.…