My dear daughter,
If you happen to lose the love of your life, you may feel that you don’t know how to function in a world without him. You may feel empty and lost. The hurt may run deep because he was your joy and literally your “song.” You may feel anger, feel like there is a huge hole in your life and wonder if you will be able to fill it again.
My dear girl, you have to learn to let go. Yes, it will be very hard and the pain and resentment may run very deep, I know. Still you have to let go and move on, and should not let any experience you go through in life rob you of the joy of living.
Find a new “song” to sing, and this will not happen until you let go. Experience has taught me that we are destined to experience certain situations, and one cannot change the course of destiny. You can only learn from it. If what you are experiencing was destined to happen, there is no need to fret over what is not in your control. It still does not mean your heart won’t ache with longing and sadness. It just means you have to constantly remind myself that things happen for a reason. Try and let go and move on with the assurance that all things work together for good for them that love God.
God loves you my dear. Never forget this. Have faith in God. “Trust in God with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.”
We might not be able to comprehend fully what God has planned. However always remind yourself that God has something beautiful planned for each and every one of us. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” Just remember, if it’s not good, then it’s not the end. Just keep going forward no matter what. Everyone deserves happiness, but be patient and maintain a positive attitude to life.
Love you my dear.
Dad