It is no gainsaying that ladies are moved by what they hear. This is why some men capitalise on this seemingly weakness and take advantage of females. A man who wants to bring out the best in his woman must say the right things to her. His words can either kill her spirit or make her the best version of herself. In relationship matters, here are things a man should never tell his wife, girlfriend or fiancee:
1. Body shaming her
A man should never body shame his partner. He should not tell her how fat she is or how thin she is. He shouldn’t complain about those things he dislikes about her appearance, worst still compare her with another lady. If there are some things he would like to change about her appearance, he can draw her notice to it through compliments.
2. Disrespecting her family
Whenever the love couple have disputes, they may start saying the wrong things to themselves. The man should not bring up the lady’s family. He shouldn’t disrespect her family and call them names. The best thing he could do is leave them out of the argument.
3. Referring to an ex
The ex is an ex, no need to bring her up. If the man constantly refers to his ex in conversations, it shows he may still be thinking of her and secretly wants her back. He should focus on his relationship and let go of the ex.
4. Complimenting other ladies
Ladies are naturally territorial. Allowing another lady into her man’s space is something she does not condone. When her man now goes ahead to compliment other females, it sends a signal to her that she is not appreciated or wanted. This happens especially if the man rarely compliments her. If the man must compliment another lady, he should not do it around his lover.
5. Ridicule her
When she tells you about her plans and other things she wants to do, never belittle or laugh at her. The man should be her biggest cheerleader. Don’t tell a lady she is useless or senseless. Make her feel valuable and support her ambitions.